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Post by Rebecca Grey on Dec 18, 2010 22:41:24 GMT -5
people suck people are jerks, why be so fake ? Why lie be truthful im you best friend why add to the pain and why be fake in all this whats the point of being a friend if you can't take the person past, their mistakes there life I thought that what part of being a friend is.
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Post by kellygrey16 on Dec 21, 2010 0:37:03 GMT -5
Becky, not sure what your situation is exactly, but I know how you feel. Don't worry, if you were meant to be true friends, you'll make it through any sticky situation. If the person still isn't being truthful, then, I know this is hard to think about or accept, but then that person isn't a true friend and it would be better to let your life go on without them. You don't need people lying to you or dragging you down. You want to surround yourself by good people who care about you.
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Post by Rebecca Grey on Dec 21, 2010 14:46:56 GMT -5
THanks Kelly, I like my friend a whole let we been together almost 4 years, we been though a lot together, but she talks behind her husband back and puts him down in front of the others, don't get me worng he can be real jerk but like the other day she was calling him his wife funny right well its just making her sound little odd, and not only that its Christmas she starts in crying to me that she has no money for food etc......and like me know how that is , i got paid and had 30 left over to do a little bite more christmas shopping and takes me little bite of money because something my mom own her, yet my mom already give the girl $100 for it, Then we want to the store, and got a few things then she starts buying things for her self what i was thinking to myself you got to be joking right? Really? After all that crying you really need to buy that a pillow ? for you living room wow Thanks for taking the little bite I need for christmas you could wait to the first just like the rest of us ! We all make mistakes I can't even tell her this because she yes a know it all its all her way and she right And in some ways i think she trying to live though me sometimes, I'm learning a lot,
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Post by boobabydoll on Aug 4, 2011 14:24:03 GMT -5
Okay, so as many of you know, my life since the father walked out on me has been total chaos since Dad was diagnosed with cancer right after. WELL, stress has been building and building with everyone because of all this.
Here's what is happening/what I've been doing: To keep from adding onto the stress of the family, I've been keeping my mouth shut about everything. Even if I'm scared about something, instead of asking for help, I grab one of the baby books I have. If I'm really worried, I call my doctor. She knows what is going on and understands it all. Dad also understands where I stand and thanks me for not adding on to the stress, but he has become rather worried because I have become more and more tired the more stress that is added because of what's going on with him. Even if I don't show it. So I'm now going to start going to counseling at the crisis pregnancy center to help.
Well, at the house I have been doing what I can, cleaning practically everything (or so it feels like it) and still not having enough time to even get my own laundry done. I'm even swallowing my pride and signing up for food stamps. Which around here, if you have to use them you're automatically stamped as white trash. Same with the WIC program...I'm sure you can all understand why I'm having to swallow a lot of pride with all this. But all in all, this is also to help the family with money problems since Dad is on sick leave and we're not getting that much money...At all. I want to help and can't find a job, so this is what I'm going to do to be able to help out with something.
My mom on the other hand, has been telling everyone her problems and getting some good advice. Yet today, she decides to get attention at Kroger and decides to "break down" in the check out line. Everyone is glaring at me and telling me that I should "be a better child" and that I "should stop caring about myself." And yes, they all know I'm pregnant. But I'm suppose to give up everything and possibly cause a premature birth just for Mom. I'm not suppose to do ANYTHING for myself at all. Dad didn't know what to say so he just rushed me out of the store trying to keep me calm because I was starting to tear up because I was just called a terrible child to my parents thanks to Mom. So yea, I'm a bit pissed off about this and just needed to get it off my chest. Even now I feel like absolute crap because of all this. =/
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Post by boobabydoll on Dec 8, 2011 0:52:03 GMT -5
You know, it really bothers me when someone is on facebook saying "I will never believe it, and I'm not the only one." This being in regards to who the biological father of my child is. This is his fiance that is saying this. She is also pregnant and due on Jan, 15th. When I saw both of them three weeks ago, they were both fine. Now since I've given birth to my child, she has been updating her facebook saying that she doesn't believe it and refuses to..(Man does she have something coming when the courts get involved. >.<) Also HE is just making up excuses about this and that. All in all I don't care that he doesn't want to see his daughter. But he and his fiance know for a fact that this child is his. Both his parents came to the hospital to see her and they both could tell that Elizabeth is very much so their granddaughter. And they both loved on her...I guess it's just super annoying to me because I haven't been online until now since I left the hospital yesterday morning...Yet all I've heard about via texts or calls, is about how this is all over facebook. She doesn't name anyone, or say what it is she doesn't believe...But with all the comments on the statuses and with the timing of everything, even HIS mom said that she knew what it was. If she doesn't want to believe it, then fine....but don't talk about what I've done on facebook....It's not my fault that he cheated and got both of us pregnant, had I actually known then I wouldn't have ever let him in. But all in all...I don't care, because I love my baby girl.
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