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Post by boobabydoll on Jul 8, 2010 16:21:50 GMT -5
OKay normally I find this thread on the gaming thread...But hey we have a sub board for it! What what! HAHAHAHAHAHA Anyways, this is a place that you can just rant about anything and everything. As long as you're not bashing another board member. That's a rule, I will be keeping an eye on this. But if you need advice for a problem or something of the sorts then feel free to come here and ask for it. We're all friends and everyone has a different way to handle things. Don't be like I was and not ask for help. XOX
My problem right now is that my father is seriously about to drive me insane. I mean really, he never gives me a chance on anything anymore. I can't do anything right and he thinks I'm still twelve. Since I'm having problems trying to find a NEW job he's just being a complete and total butt. My car blew up in April and with him and mom going to summer classes I'm kind of stuck at home since most my friends don't live here. I've become a slave, the only thing they don't take from me is my music...Other wise I'd snap...But I don't want to go down that path again. Any advice as to how to keep from going ape-shit?
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Post by Megan Grey on Jul 8, 2010 16:27:46 GMT -5
Just remember that you're an Adult and while you might respect their opinions what they say or think doesn't really matter that much. If things get bad you can always leave. It would be hard but you DO have options. If you're still breathing you always have options. Love ya boo! Hope things get better =)
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Post by liebling on Jul 9, 2010 9:55:55 GMT -5
^ This, pretty much. Though I know where you're coming from. I've lived with my mother til I was 24 and it sucks how parents never really stop seeing you as their kid that needs help with everything. And what's even more annoying is when they're right and you know they are but you could never admit it because they'd never let you hear the end of it!
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Post by boobabydoll on Jul 15, 2010 23:43:59 GMT -5
UHG I'd like for just once...ONCE to actually have an entire conversation with my dad and NOT get into an argument. Why must he be more hard headed than me? >.>
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Post by gavin on Jul 25, 2010 23:44:41 GMT -5
i have no idea if i'm in the right thread for this but i'm so mad i can't even see straight and i don't have the energy or direction to log onto anything else and word vomit. so. here i go. i'm sorry if this gets unnecessary.
my girlfriend's little sister has been family to me from the moment i met her years and years ago. i've watched her grow up from a shy, sweet little kid to....i don't even know what the fuck she is aside from completely FUCKED. i know she's been through some unspeakable things, but anymore she's making decisions that are downright STUPID and i am overwhelmingly angry. she grew up watching her drug addict older sister destroy the lives of everyone around her. she used to be such a hypercritical bitch of everyone that ever took drugs or drank too much, to the point where even a straightedge person such as myself thought it went too far. i know this year has been extremely hard for her, but when you first throw it up in my face that i'm not there for you because i went to the STORE FOR GROCERIES or WENT TO WORK, and then let everyone on your facebook (including your mother? OH AREN'T WE SUCH A LITTLE BADASS, I AM SO GODDAMN IMPRESSED WITH YOU AND YOUR REBELLION) know that you're taking, as you put it, "recreational drugs", I DO NOT FUCKING FEEL BAD FOR YOU.
she is such a childish, selfish hypocrite. no. no, you cannot come over to my house and lie to me about your day before i even ask you how it went. you cannot eat my food, criticize my housekeeping and use me as an alibi so you can sneak out to snort your dad's oxy and smoke it up with your older sister while her mom raises her baby for her. grow the fuck up. prioritize. we all have problems, the difference is that some of us learned to deal with them.
ldsfgjdaflkgjdafklghjad. RAEG.
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Post by boobabydoll on Jul 26, 2010 9:41:06 GMT -5
Gavin...Just wow. I've seen that before and it really sucks. I seriously have no clue what to say, but this definitely was the right place to come and just rant it out. I mean I understand that she went through some terrible things...It seems to be the trend with girls now..But to become a complete hypocrite and just what sounds like the exact opposite of what she was is insane. Not to mention she's obviously just making you wanna hit her.
I hope that she finds the path with out drugs though...Because going down a road of drugs sucks..Even with the high >.< I hope things get better for ya love.
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Post by Rebecca Grey on Jul 31, 2010 23:29:28 GMT -5
My problem right now is that my father is in so much pain, he broke all his bones in his body, and has rods ect...into his bones, but the pain is so much, he just turn 57 and he work all his life, he can't same to stop not even though the pain, my mother is the same way, but she has a illness, and I see her pain as well, we clean the whole house head to toe, it was a lot of teamwork, its going into 9:00 pm at night, and we still working ect...but I hate seeing them in pain, I guess its not rant it out and get help, but they are older then me, and don't understand how I see my life, I dislike their pain, it breaks my heart as I see it, and my other sisters are not here, or to hear my voice, or too see their pain their illness, sometime its too much, b/c after cleaning this place, I know my father going to be really sick, from the pain, and my mom too... I don't drive, so its looks like I'm not going anywhere anytime soon. I love my family. But cleaning house sucks. Yet so thankfull at the same time.
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Post by LCisVL616 on Aug 23, 2010 15:16:54 GMT -5
I reluctantly go to join the Latino club at my school. (Only b/c I need to be free for lunch and after to work and not be at club meetings.) My counselor said she's going to try and get me scholarships for college because of being bilingual and "To make [me] an example so people don't think that we are not all gang members" and whatnot. (She's Latina) So she says to go to make it look better on college applications. Club advisor tells me that I need to take AP Statistics if I want to study nursing. (What? I don't really get it but okay.) I'd rather take Calculus honestly. He says that I'll need to take it in college anyways. He tells me he recognizes my last name and I tell him about my cousins. His attitude towards me changes (not in a good way) because my cousins kinda have a record. Me being the youngest out of the three of us I get the crap for it b/c people think I'm the same. I need AP statistics like I need a nail in my foot... What I need is a job to help out and pay my senior year expenses (they are a lot!) not a tough class I probably wouldn't be able to handle. Besides, so many people tell me the class is horrible. I feel bad about not going back to my counselor like he said but I honestly can't have an extra class b/c then I'd be leaving school 2 hours later than I should b/c I'd stay for lunch and that class. I'm thinking about this too hard.
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Post by Megan Grey on Aug 23, 2010 16:06:22 GMT -5
That's tough. I would do what the counselors say though. I never did and it got me...well nowhere. xD
Why the hell are you building more apartments when there is already ZERO parking. I'm going to have to move in just so I can park my damn car and be to class on time. This is ridiculous.
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Post by Megan Grey on Oct 17, 2010 23:02:04 GMT -5
Last month my friend lost her job. She's my age and has a baby so things aren't easy for her. She was going to lose her house so I loaned her A LOT of money. Now she not only can't pay me back but really doesn't have any interest in paying me back. I knew I shouldn't have done it in the first place but I'm really bad at saying no to people and she begged. Now I'm screwed. I'm totally broke and after this week I can't even afford to drive back and forth to classes. I don't know what I'm going to do! I'm afraid that I'm going to fail all of my classes and get my grants taken away from me. The worst part is that it's all my fault. Also I broke a nail and it really hurts...
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Post by Rebecca Grey on Oct 18, 2010 18:19:46 GMT -5
Megan... Hope things work out for you, its not easy for helping people who are in a need like you friend is, its just sometimes we get the blessings you need though out helping people that are in need like you friend is, you won't fail any of you classes you work way to heard to fail no matter how heard life can get you can make it though, there are rides to go too college I have to take the bus myself, because I can't drive yet! there are also im not sure if you have the same thing at you school, a list of drivers around where you live and write down you name and address and you can make calls and let them know you need a ride etc.... that suck you broke you nail .
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Post by heysavy on Oct 22, 2010 7:44:02 GMT -5
The financial aid office at my school is ridiculous. Mine hasn't gone through yet (and won't until next week) so I got a notice in the mail about how much I owe. I'm not too worried about that, since it'll be taken care of once everything goes through. What I am worried about is when my reimbursement check will be going out since I owe all that money to my uncle, and when I need to have my renewed fafsa turned in by. I've been calling and leaving messages for two days now, with no answer and no call back. It's starting to piss me off. I'm going to try to get in there today even though Friday's they only do limited services because if I don't get my questions answered soon I could be in a lot of trouble financially. There's already enough of that at home currently, I don't need the school fucking me over on top of it all. ><
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Post by Rebecca Grey on Oct 23, 2010 2:06:49 GMT -5
hope you get it all work out
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Post by LCisVL616 on Oct 24, 2010 14:43:37 GMT -5
In my English class we have to pick a pilgrim from Geoffrey Chaucer's Canterbury Tales and then do a small project on said pilgrim. We had the choice to either do it alone or with a partner. I was going to do it alone because that way I don't have to worry about another person's grade or potentially mess them up. Then a girl in my class asked if she can be my partner and I reluctantly agreed. In this case I wasn't reluctant because I didn't want to work with her, it's because she has a really bad attitude and does nothing in that class. The only reason I said yes was because I felt kinda bad for her because no one really likes her. I don't want to be mean and go along with what other people say about her because I don't know her. So, she was supposed to do the poster (with information I did all of) and that was it. I knew it wouldn't be much and she'd be able to do it while I did the info and read the ENTIRE tale out loud to the class. No. She messages me today and says she can't print out all of the info. So I have to and then come tomorrow morning I have to put together the poster with the stuff she brings in. I know it's my fault for agreeing to do the project with her...but seriously it seemed to me she was looking for excuses not to do it."I can't open the file you sent me." Fine. I cut and pasted it in a message for her. "I can't print that all out." Fine. I'll print it. She pinky promised me she'd do all her work. PINKY PROMISED. That's serious stuff.
Okay, but in all seriousness now guys... I can't seem to say no to anyone. I hope she doesn't ask me to partner up with her again. For all the road blocks she gave me I responded with a smile and never let on that I was kinda mad. I bet I won't even say anything about to her tomorrow. I'm bad at no.
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Post by heysavy on Oct 26, 2010 11:42:14 GMT -5
Oh, good, it's not just the financial aid department (which, btw I finally got the answers I needed from). Now I can't do early registration? There was a 45 minute wait of people who were doing early registration but I was told I can't register until November 5th. Yes, I know it's next week but I need to see an advisor to register so that I know what classes I need to take, if any, to finish out my associates. Whatever. Maybe I'm just being pissy for no reason but this shit is fucking annoying.
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