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Post by Megan Grey on Sept 21, 2010 10:27:35 GMT -5
COMPLICATED
I can't read them! How do you know when they're being a jerk or just being a guy? How do you know if they're really interested in you as a person and not just a fling? This is seriously complicating my life. Ugh.
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Post by kellygrey16 on Sept 21, 2010 11:19:02 GMT -5
I completely agree, Megan. I wish I had an answer for you for any of your questions...but I'm in the same boat, kinda. So you aren't the only one! Guys are confusing...
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Post by Rebecca Grey on Sept 22, 2010 1:40:10 GMT -5
I never what or how to read a guy, i never around them enough, I wish guys are nicer, all the men I know are jerks, are there really nice guys out there or am I lone in the world of fairly tale land.
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Post by heysavy on Sept 22, 2010 10:16:01 GMT -5
I always just flat out ask if I'm really unsure. The way I see it is, if they say yes then you cut out all the beating around the bush and get to the good stuff. If they say no, then you have your answer and can move on.
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Post by kellygrey16 on Sept 22, 2010 10:28:25 GMT -5
I always just flat out ask if I'm really unsure. The way I see it is, if they say yes then you cut out all the beating around the bush and get to the good stuff. If they say no, then you have your answer and can move on. That's a very good point...I can just never work up to courage to actually ask...that would be my problem! lol
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Post by Megan Grey on Sept 22, 2010 14:52:39 GMT -5
The guy who inspired this thread ignored me for two days after spending the weekend with him...So I got over it. I deleted his number from my phone and decided to forget about him. AND THEN he turns into chatty Cathy and calls me at like seven this morning and we talked for an hour! Like he hadn't been ignoring me for days. I'm SO VERY CONFUSED.
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Post by kellygrey16 on Sept 22, 2010 15:29:02 GMT -5
Oh yikes....that's tough. That's the worst when that happens though. Just ask him what's been up and I say just try and get it out of him whether he's into you or not...even though that may be hard to do
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Post by Megan Grey on Sept 22, 2010 17:07:16 GMT -5
I'm pretty sure he's just stringing me along in case he has a use for me later on. Now where did I put my scissors
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Post by heysavy on Sept 22, 2010 18:00:42 GMT -5
I always just flat out ask if I'm really unsure. The way I see it is, if they say yes then you cut out all the beating around the bush and get to the good stuff. If they say no, then you have your answer and can move on. That's a very good point...I can just never work up to courage to actually ask...that would be my problem! lol Yeah, it took a while for me to be able to do that. Haha. But I finally got sick of wondering. Once you do it a few times it's easier. :]
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Post by Rebecca Grey on Sept 22, 2010 18:45:39 GMT -5
So meet this guy over a year ago, and at the banter fair, i run into his friends, his friends i never meet, but they know him, and i got his number from his best friend, do I call or not?
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Post by Monica Grey on Sept 22, 2010 19:37:29 GMT -5
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Post by Megan Grey on Sept 22, 2010 20:03:16 GMT -5
It's so true Monica!!!
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Post by medicatedmonica on Oct 30, 2010 15:26:37 GMT -5
LOL, that cracked me up, Monica.
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Post by kellygrey16 on Dec 28, 2010 12:20:13 GMT -5
Guys are effing stupid...I guess I can't do anything right when it comes to a guy. The guy that I've been spending all of my time with for the past couple weeks now has a girlfriend all of a sudden, someone who also works with us. Seriously, we just hung out on Sunday night, cuddled, kissed...now I wake up this morning and see on my news feed that he has a girlfriend...I'm so pissed right now. I keep getting effed over.
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Post by Monica Grey on Dec 29, 2010 21:18:46 GMT -5
Aww Kelly I know how that is. It's really awful.
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